Distenfeld—Charos ?Robert and Nancy Charos of Southampton have announced the engagement of their daughter Julia Kaye to David L. Distenfeld, a son of Andrea Distenfeld and the late Sidney Distenfeld of Boynton Beach, Florida, and formerly of Water Mill. ?Both Mr. Distenfeld and Ms. Charos graduated from Southampton High School, but met years later through mutual friends. ?Ms. Charos received a bachelor’s degree from the State University of New York at Plattsburgh and completed a master’s degree in social work at SUNY Stony Brook. ?Mr. Distenfeld attended the Culinary Institute of America in Hyde Park. ?The couple was living in Boston when they became engaged in October. Mr. Distenfeld proposed as they stood in the observatory at the top of the Prudential Tower. The couple has moved back to Long Island, and will reside in Hampton Bays. An October 2007 wedding is planned.